I have a relationship dilema!!!!!?

The gr is NOT always greener on the other side. You HAD a good thing going with a guy who seemed devoted to you. The "ex" you describe seems to only be interested in being with SOMEBODY (and perhaps ANYBODY) who shows him attention. While only YOU can reconcile the feelings you have for somebody who's not patient enough to develop a relationship, you also should consider the boyfriend who was loyal to you. THAT's what true relationships are built upon, NOT instant gratification. Give the loyal guy a real chance to show you what love is. It'll be better than the other guy, I'll guarantee you.